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Single and Dating? Are YOU Financially Stable? (What does that even mean?)

The Dating and Dough Solution. It’s actually simple... Match’s Annual Singles in America Study hit my email box this morning. https://www.singlesinamerica.com/ One statistic jumped out at me – about FINANCES....

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Don’t Hire a Matchmaker (until you’ve made it through Julie Ferman’s Boot Camp)

1300 couples I’ve seen partner up over the course of 33 years in the matchmaker’s chair. It’s been a fascinating, wild ride and it’s taken me that long to perfect...

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Are You Bored? Have You Been …. Boring? The antidote is here.

From time to time, has dating been for you BORING? Same old, same old? And a tougher question – Have you ever BEEN boring, to someone you’ve been with on...

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Santa Fe Dating, in 2020

Dating in Santa Fe is happening, for determined, persistent and creative love seekers of all ages. As Santa Fe’s very own personal matchmaker, I’m surprised and delighted with the quality...

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Dating Success Stories During the Pandemic Era

Can people date successfully during the COVID-19 era? Yes, indeed. Here is a real-life example of how one couple is gracefully overcoming the hurdles, making a meaningful connection, even now....

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Grown-Up Dating, By Force

A problem always presents an opportunity. Every time. Without exception. Dating in the time of social distancing? Big problem, Yes? Which indeed presents opportunity. It’s not all bad, folks. Here...

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First Dates Online? Yes, and here’s how.

I LOVE in-person introductions. AND if you’re sincerely seeking relationship, I say do NOT put your dating life on hold while you’re shut in at home.  Instead, build that Black...

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First Dates: Are You Going on TOO MANY or TOO FEW?

First Dates: Are You Going on TOO MANY or TOO FEW? You’re single, and you’d much rather be in love. Yes? OK, so let’s get you set up for success....

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Smart Men, Silly Men. Which are YOU?

OK, so I called out the smart and the silly ladies – the women who are doing dating well and those who are doing it badly, https://blog.julieferman.com/smart-women-and-silly-women-which-are-you/ and now it’s...

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How Love Won in 2018. Your Matchmaker’s Musings.

At the end of each year, I love to study the new Success Story Couples – the couples that I saw connect, fall in love and commit to each other...

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