Don’t Throw Away The Guy You Are Dating

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How good are you at dating? Answer this question to find out. If you were invited to a singles party, where you could only come if you brought a thoroughly desirable opposite sex friend with you, who would you invite? Would you have several candidates you could call? If not, you’re making a cardinal dating mistake — you’re burning your bridges.

I’ve got a signature dating event that I often include in my VIP Matchmaking Client’s search program. It’s called Conversational Quickies. It’s always a hit, and it’s always fruitful — meaning it’s always resulted in at least one love connection.

If you’re single and actively dating, do this test with me. Take a look through your calendar over the past 6 – 12 months and write down the names of ALL of the first dates you’ve had. How many second dates did you have? How many third dates?  Ideally, at least 50% of your first dates resulted in at least a second date. That means you’re doing a good job of screening, vetting and presenting yourself authentically, and it shows that you’re doing a fine job of being “a great date.” Click here for my original article source and more event details.

Julie Ferman, Professional Matchmaker
Written by Julie Ferman

Professional Matchmaker & Dating Coach for three decades with 1,400+ Success Story Couples and four iDate Best Matchmaker Awards. Featured on Dr. Phil, GMA, The Today Show, WSJ, NYT, and LA Times. Host of the Cupid’s Coach Podcast — ranked top 5% globally.