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Living Apart Together: Two Homes, One Couple, and the Part About Money
A client of mine told me flat out that he would never live with anybody. I put it on his profile, worded carefully, and about twelve introductions later I had...
Learn MoreDating Over 60: I Do Better With My Older Clients Than My Younger Ones
I'd rather show you my own book than tell you love has no expiration date: a bootcamp that runs from 26 to 83, a 79-year-old on her fourth date with...
Learn MoreChemistry vs Compatibility: How Much of Each You Actually Need
Think of the five people you've had the most chemistry with in your whole life. Are you with any of them right now? Evan Marc Katz asked me that on...
Learn MoreHow Much Does a Matchmaker Cost? I’ve Been on Both Sides of the Check
In 1990 I handed a dating service $1,450 I did not have, on a $35,000 salary, and maxed out both my credit cards to do it. How Much Does a...
Learn MoreDating a Separated Man: What I Say to “He’s Still Married”
I've been introducing people since 1990, and I've never seen so many good men in the dating pool who are still married on paper. Before you rule one of them...
Learn MoreFirst Date, What to Wear: A Matchmaker’s Seven-Second Rule
I've sat beside clients while they scrolled through hundreds of profiles and said yes or no out loud. Here's what they were actually reacting to, and it was almost never...
Learn MoreWhat Is Ethical Non-Monogamy? Polyamory, Open Relationships and Swinging, Explained
It's an umbrella term covering three quite different arrangements, and almost every argument about it comes from people using the same word for different things. What Is Ethical Non-Monogamy? A...
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