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I've sat beside clients while they scrolled through hundreds of profiles and said yes or no out loud. Here's what they were actually reacting to, and it was almost never...

It's an umbrella term covering three quite different arrangements, and almost every argument about it comes from people using the same word for different things. What Is Ethical Non-Monogamy? A...

Most rejections I see aren't rejections at all. They're scheduling failures, and both people walk away hurt for no reason whatsoever. How to Ask Someone Out: The Short Answer Find...

Nobody has ever felt less jealous because they were told to. This works because it doesn't ask you to stop feeling anything. It gives the feeling somewhere to go. Jealousy...

After 34 years and 1,400 couples, my answer is no. And I'll show you what to do instead of waiting. Do You Have to Love Yourself First? The Short Answer...

When Dinner Stops Feeling Romantic   These days, dinner dates can feel more like checklists than connection, a blur of menus, small talk, and glowing screens. But when you slow...

When “Advice” Starts to Feel Like Noise  If you’ve ever searched for relationship advice for women, you’ve seen the endless lists: what to text, when to pull back, how to...