Want to Impress Her? 6 Things NOT to do on a First Date

Julie Ferman professional headshot for first date advice columnFirst, I am going to give you the bad news.

If you are a catch (you’re nice looking, your career is on track, your character is rock solid, and you’re fun and funny) then you’re also going to be selective. You will want to date girls who get lots of attention from other guys because she is also a catch. This is especially true if you’re targeting a woman in what I call, “the Golden Bubble,” or between the ages 27 to 34. Those are key years because those women are old enough to have their heads screwed on pretty straight, and young enough to have plenty of fertility years ahead of them. Women like that get 100 emails in their first hour on Match.com or Plenty of Fish. You have lots of competition for their attention.

Now the good news: Most of your competitors are messing up big time with this girl. Check out the rest here!

xoxo,

Julie

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Julie Ferman, Professional Matchmaker
Written by Julie Ferman

Professional Matchmaker & Dating Coach for three decades with 1,400+ Success Story Couples and four iDate Best Matchmaker Awards. Featured on Dr. Phil, GMA, The Today Show, WSJ, NYT, and LA Times. Host of the Cupid’s Coach Podcast — ranked top 5% globally.