When inviting her out, be clear and decisive, the man with the plan, and choose a nice spot, quiet enough for conversation.
Confirm by text message a day prior or the morning of, so she’ll know you’ll be there and are looking forward to seeing her. Dress nicely (she probably will) and be on time. Ask questions, demonstrate sincere interest in her, and make sure the conversation is balanced.
Be a gentleman, always kind and courteous to her and to the people all around you. Whether you’re attracted to her, interested in seeing her again or not, give her your full attention and do your part to make sure she’s having a nice time. Plan to pick up the tab, and when the check hits the table, just handle it. If cost is a concern, choose reasonable spots or have happy hour or coffee dates.
