What To Do When He Disappears and Comes Back

If he intrigues you and if he appears to meet your top 3 criteria, it may be worth giving him a second chance

Matchmaking chronicles: Interview with matchmaker Julie FermanYes, if a guy comes back for a second chance, if he intrigues you and if he appears to meet your Top Three Critical Criteria, yes indeed… set a date with him and see what’s there for the two of you.

The two things that we can’t control for a man are 1) Attraction… You only have a shot with the guy who thinks you’re hot… and 2) Timing… who’s available when, who’s ready when. You know from your own life, there are times when suitors come in pairs or packs, when you’re all of a sudden “hot” and you’ve got several men on your dance card. And then POOF, things fall apart and there’s no one special on that dance card at all. Well, it’s like that for men too. Sometimes he’s exploring something with another woman who’s got his attention, and you’re pushed to the back burner, for whatever reason. Things don’t work out with her and then you come to mind for him. Or he’s got family or work responsibilities that have his attention. Read full article…

 

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