Blog

How Much Does a Matchmaker Cost? I’ve Been on Both Sides of the Check

In 1990 I handed a dating service $1,450 I did not have, on a $35,000 salary, and maxed out both my credit cards to do it. How Much Does a...

Learn More

Dating a Separated Man: What I Say to “He’s Still Married”

I've been introducing people since 1990, and I've never seen so many good men in the dating pool who are still married on paper. Before you rule one of them...

Learn More

First Date, What to Wear: A Matchmaker’s Seven-Second Rule

I've sat beside clients while they scrolled through hundreds of profiles and said yes or no out loud. Here's what they were actually reacting to, and it was almost never...

Learn More

What Is Ethical Non-Monogamy? Polyamory, Open Relationships and Swinging, Explained

It's an umbrella term covering three quite different arrangements, and almost every argument about it comes from people using the same word for different things. What Is Ethical Non-Monogamy? A...

Learn More

How to Ask Someone Out Without Engineering Your Own “No”

Most rejections I see aren't rejections at all. They're scheduling failures, and both people walk away hurt for no reason whatsoever. How to Ask Someone Out: The Short Answer Find...

Learn More

Jealousy in Relationships: The Signal That Ends the Spiral

Nobody has ever felt less jealous because they were told to. This works because it doesn't ask you to stop feeling anything. It gives the feeling somewhere to go. Jealousy...

Learn More

Do You Have to Love Yourself First to Find Love?

After more than three decades and over 1,600 couples, my answer is no. And I'll show you what to do instead of waiting. Do You Have to Love Yourself First?...

Learn More

Register Now

Register with us, and we’ll be right back in touch with our personal recommendations for you